From the archive

Are you tired, or do you hate living like this?

I'm not going to demand that you drop everything tomorrow. Sometimes that option doesn't exist, and it helps to admit it. But you can start identifying what you need: a different schedule, savings, another team, a skill, help with the workload. You can test a small change before making a big one. Stop volunteering for what wears you down. Finally call the conditions bad instead of calling yourself bad every evening.