From the archive
Be a monster
And you'll have to endure unpleasant feelings without immediately concluding that you've chosen the wrong path. Does it hurt to admit you've wasted years? Yes. That admission probably won't feel like a massage. Is it scary to submit work people might tear apart? Of course. You've finally given reality a chance to answer. Tired after a hard day? It happens. Not every difficult day means you need to drop everything and urgently find something that never requires you to make an effort.