From the archive

An apology without change is permission to do it again

Not every repeated mistake means deception. People don't change at the press of a button. Habits, dependencies, and circumstances can be difficult to manage. Honest attempts, setbacks, and gradual results exist. But an attempt usually leaves evidence. Someone seeks help, changes the conditions, gives warning themselves, acknowledges consequences without another two-hour interrogation. Doesn't demand immediate renewed trust just because feeling guilty is unpleasant.